I did the 13WL upgrade this spring. I'd been putting it off, but it was time for a brake job on my 97 SR5. Some (rather long) thoughts:
Toyota has offered a free shipping code for a while now on orders over $75 through their parts center at parts.toyota.com. Looking at pricing from some dealers out of state (like Lewis Toyota in Topeka), the total cost was lower than places I've sourced parts from in the past, like Camelback Toyota or McGeorge Toyota, and after factoring in cost to ship back caliper cores, still lower than local dealers.
Toyota has a reman version of the 13WL 231mm calipers, P/N 47750-0C022-84 for the left and 47730-0C022-84 for the right. Not sure when these became available. Camelback and McGeorge include the reman ones in search results for the non-reman part numbers, but only if the search results aren't filtered for vehicle year and model. There's no vehicle fitment list below the reman caliper description, so if search results are filtered for any year Tundra, the reman part number simply won't show up. The reman part numbers aren't included on the front brake diagram parts list, on any OEM parts site I've looked at.
It was $138 ea on those from Lewis vs $231 ea for new. They're a little less from McGeorge, but no free shipping.
It turned out to be a 6 week backorder on them, though. I don't know what parts availability on new ones would have been.
I replaced the original rubber brake lines with braided stainless ones. StopTech on the fronts, and Wheeler's on the rear. For rubber vacuum caps from Autozone to cap off the hard brake lines, 7/32" turned out to be the best size, though 3/16" and 1/4" sizes worked ok.
I bought a Motive pressure bleeder to use while flushing the old brake fluid. I gave up using the included chain with the j hook hardware, as I had problems getting a good seal with the universal cap on the brake fluid reservoir. I cut a length of stout wire and twisted loops on the ends of it, which fit better under the master cylinder in place of the chain, and allowed the cap to remain centered over the reservoir opening when tightening the hardware.
The bleed screws on the rear drums were plugged with crud, and wouldn't allow brake fluid through. Had to remove them and clean out the bleed screw openings with brake cleaner, a drill bit, and some wire. New rubber caps afterward from the local Toyota dealer were a couple bucks.
When bleeding the rear drums, had a different problem- I kept getting bubbles, no matter how much brake fluid I bled through the lines, on both driver and passenger sides.
The pressure reading on the Motive tank gauge held steady, and I double checked torque on the other brake line connections I'd tightened, so a leak allowing air into the system didn't seem likely. I'd made sure not to let the reservoir run dry, so I didn't think air in the master cylinder was causing it. Though it did make me wonder if air from replacing the rubber brake lines could have worked its way up there.
Posts on a few forums from others with the same symptoms offered some ideas. One was that once the bleed screw is cracked open, air may leak in around the threads as the fluid is bled out, and then be drawn into the fluid at the base of the bleed screw, resulting in the unending stream of small bubbles I was seeing. More so on vehicles with bleed screws like the 4Runner that seal with the flare end, and not with the threads.
I could understand that happening with vacuum bleeders, but less so with pressure bleeders like the Motive. Regardless, that seemed to be the answer. After I backed out a bleed screw partway, applied brake caliper grease to the threads as suggested elsewhere, retightened, and cracked it open again, the bubbles ceased and the brake fluid bled normally.
I'd had the Motive tank pressurized to 15 PSI at first, then 10 PSI, which didn't make a difference. I don't know if using a lower pressure would have changed the bubble situation. Despite my efforts, I couldn't find a spec for pressure bleeding of brake fluid in the FSM.
I'm grateful for the wealth of info posted here over the years. To the OP and others who contributed to this thread, and to the rest of the 3rd gen forum- thanks! I haven't had much to share, but this place has been an invaluable resource.