Hi guys, first post here and first 4Runner in the family. We were looking for a reliable 3 row seating SUV last Summer and we eliminated the Highlander very quickly when we tested the 3rd row with the kids. The 4Runner was very tempting but we decided to be raisonnable and listened to all of those who say that 4Runners are not for pavement drivers and we bought a 2020 Honda Pilot Black Edition. I must admit that the interior space is better and that the fuel consumption is better too (better than both Toyotas). You can't imagine how much trouble I had with this Honda. Long story short, we bought a 4Runner this winter and I can say that we love this truck and we use the 3rd row all the time. My point is, if the 3rd row seating is important, test by yourself the highlander because for us it was no more an option after testing. The 4Runner is way better in my opinion on that aspect.