Found an OEM strut washer lying around soooo... ripped the drivers side apart again. Put the dobisons washer I had on top down on the bottom and put the oem washer up top. Problem solved.
Everything is back together. Amazing how fast you get when you do it a bizzilion times.
Just need to tq everything down drivers side and find an alignment shop.
Pic of my kdss wrangling setup: