I was in the same boat a couple years ago when I installed my lift with so many options available.
I wanted something affordable that gave me the lift and look I wanted for my 34" tires so I went with the Bilstein 5100's, OME springs and Toytec 1/2" top spacers up front. This set up is perfect for me with no rake!
My only minor complaint is when hitting holes and bumps you feel it
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Good luck on your decision and hope your happy with what you choose.