With so many lights. Your gonna have thousand relays and wires everywhere.
Ever consider something like this ?
Universal Waterproof Fuse Relay Panel Distribution Cooper Bussmann Off Road | eBay
You could easily run more then 1 light of 1 relay. Depending on your volts, amps and such. You simple connect your light positive wire to the wire from relay and you run your switch wire and power wire to where your switches would be.
This is just an idea to keep things clean and easy
Check out my build I have the 10 relay box !
koltlt 97 sr5 build thread
Reasonw why I'm showing this, is you can connect your power wire for switches to one pin and have that switch turn on the relay that will power up 2 lights.