I ended up going with this kit from Stone -
New Stone Engine Valve Cover Gasket Set JVS10420 Lexus Toyota | eBay
It seems to be the same Ishino Stone kit recommended above (and in other threads) that they used to sell on Amazon. Seems legit, made in Japan, all the right packaging etc. It came with the VC gaskets, the 16 washers, the 6 spark plug tube seals, 2 cam plugs, and the PCV grommet. Had to order plenum gaskets and PCV valve separately. Not bad for ~$60.
The Stone part # for the kit is JVS10420. Hope it all fits. Here's what showed up
Thanks for the suggestions!