I have the 50 SUV on my truck and its not loud at all IMO. Actually when I had it installed I was kinda bummed out because it sounded almost stock. After about two weeks of break in it sounds just a little bit beefier than stock. Thats just my take.
Just remember that each brand has different series, i've heard some thrush mufflers that are very very loud.
I'm defintely not pushing the Flowmaster, but this video sold me on the muffler I purchased.
05 4.7 V8 4Runner Flowmaster - YouTube
Youtube is your friend.
This magnaflow clip doesn't sound bad either....
http://youtu.be/9FVUYQtZ1SU