In the same boat, this is a potential candidate?
AUTOXBERT 4M/13Ft Automotive Weather Stripping Rear Windshield Seal Trim Universal Y Shape Rubber Sealing Strip Trim Cover Window Edge Moulding Trim Panel Sealing
https://a.co/d/eNx3Rmm
I think it will stick up higher than OEM, but that’s $12 versus $450.