I wanted to provide a little for everyone, hoping that this helps someone else! I ended up going here to get my new bumper!
2006-2009 Toyota 4Runner Front Bumper
I elected to pay extra for their premium clear coat, but it was way cheaper than taking a black bumper to a shop to have it painted. I learned that these bumpers that are shipped folded on the ends for delivery, will restore their shape with sun. Since I'm in Oregon right now, with no sun, I brought it into the house for a few days. The fit was great and the quality was top notch! Definitely worth the price and I would purchase again!!