For tires you really can't go wrong with any of the All Terrain offerings from the major brands (BFG, Toyo, Nitto, Cooper, Yokohama, etc). You'll get people trying to claim one tire is vastly superior over another, but I don't think that's true these days. If you live in an area that receives a lot of rain and/or snow then maybe pick a tire with more siping (Toyo ATIII, Falken AT3W, etc), but as long as it has the "3 Peak" rating you'll be fine.
For wheels I think anything in the 0 to -10 offset should bring out the wheels enough for you without being overly aggressive. Look through the "Lift and Tire" thread below and you'll find endless photos of different setups to get a better idea of what look you want.
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