The guys at my local shop gave up on me and told me to take it to a local Toyota shop. Last night while driving it home, the engine died on me again, almost silently. I didn't even know it had died until I noticed that the steering and brakes were gone. Luckily I had just pulled onto my street and was able to coast the rest of the way home and pull into the driveway.
The big news to report is that I finally got a check engine light this afternoon. I pulled the code and it is a
P0717 Turbine/Input Shaft Speed Sensor Circuit No Signal. Now that I have an error code, I know what to start looking at to fix. I have searched online and found one
reference to an 04 4Runner with a similar problem that turned out to be the Crankshaft Position Sensor. Does anyone have any experience with this code?