Your rant just adds more useless info, if you have a problem with someone posting maybe send them a PM. The search can be difficult to use with so many ways of asking for certain things. For instance FJC springs vs. FJ Cruiser Springs won't bring the same results.
To keep on topic, I always keep (in my Z71 not 4R) a 30' tow strap, winch, hi-lift, shovel, 10 ton snatch block, shackles, axe (in case I need to chop & bury a log to winch to, which I've done), jumper cables, enough fluids/filters to change every, 40' transport 5/16" (grade 70) chain, flashlight, fix-a-flat (hate to use it but I don't have onboard air), a hunting knife, a leatherman tool, a tarp (to cover stuff or myself if it's cold), multimeter, metric tool set with wrenchs & sockets, small screwdriver set, pliers, and hammer for when things really get crazy.
I only have jumpers cables, tow strap, SOG multi-tool, basic tool set, shackles, tarp, knife, and flashlight in my 4r.