UPDATE
So I get another e-mail from ddmtuning.com. Apparently after 7 emails and 3.5 weeks my order has been shipped. I finally got a tracking number with this last email so I looked it up to see where my lights are and well..
Your item left SUZHOU EMS, CHINA PEOPLES REP on March 30, 2011
Foreign International Dispatch, March 30, 2011, 9:15 pm, SUZHOU EMS, CHINA PEOPLES REP
Origin Post is Preparing Shipment
Foreign Acceptance, March 28, 2011, 10:15 am
Apparently my **** is coming from CHINA....
No clue when its supposed to be here but at least its on the way I guess