I appreciate everyone's contribution when I asked for advice on color and entune. I decided on a sr5 with the convenience package in gray or silver.
I say that because the dealer is finding one within those parameters.
I decided the stock radio is plenty good and still works with my smart phone through Bluetooth. If I decide to go aftermarket later I will have the money I saved to do a very nice head unit and speaker upgrade. These are very feature rich vehicles no matter what you decide.
I went out of my market and feel very good about price compared to what local dealers are willing to do.
Now I wait. Oh the waiting.
I'll post pics when I can and remind many of you what stock looks like.