I remember when I started this thread...it was frustrating to convince the dealer to do something about my diff noise, instead they took me for test drive in another 4Runner telling me it is normal. If so, why did it not whine when it was new from factory. They are absolute pain to deal with so I finally gave up on my 16 SR5 and traded it in for 19 TRDORP.
Wouldn't you know it, this one has issues of its own. Some kind of drive line or CV axle/needle bearing noise (started at 5K), driving me bananas. I posted under a different thread but waiting for 10K service to have them check it out. I have a feeling I already know what they will tell me.
After owning 3 4Runners, I think this will be my last. I am sure it will drive just fine for years but annoying noises/rumblings and tire balance problems go on forever are getting to me. May have to check out a Heep, I know, I know that is a bit drastic but at least they don't tout their legendary reliability like Toyota, or do they? I think a big factor in my dissatisfaction is the Toyota dealer experience... always so NO first.
Okay, I am done ranting sorry.