I've got the 2020 TRD Off-road and I've read the features outlined over on trail4runner and other places, but I almost get a bit scared where it seems:
1) You should try to "regularly" drive in 4HI for a bit to keep everything working well
2) You should absolutely not use 4HI on dry pavement and risk damage.
So.. what's sort of the baseline for safely using 4HI? Can you use it on a road when it's actively raining, even if the pavement isn't pooling any water?
What level of "non-pavement" can you use it on? For example, there is this pretty well maintained service road:
It's not pavement, but is generally in pretty good condition. But there could be gravely spots, definitely some potholes, yeah...