Going to be changing the spark plugs and the spark plug tube oil seals are leaking. Trying to order all of the parts OEM but getting frustrated with searching for a few. I've found:

Intake gasket: 17176-31140
Right Valve Cover Gasket: 11213-0P010 (tried to order 11213-51020 but was told that it was the wrong part)
Left Valve Cover Gasket: 11214-31030
Spark Plug Tube Gasket: 11193-70010


Need a couple of parts, having trouble finding them and the local parts guy is giving me the wrong part#s. Can't find them on the forum either:
Rubber boots that go on the bottom of the coil and over the spark plug, just want to replace them as a preventative measure due to age and some having been soaking in engine oil. Dealer parts guy gave me #11193-70010
The copper crush washer that goes on the banjo bolts on the oil lines to the valve covers for the VVT. Dealer parts guy gave me #11193-70010, not what I'm looking for, already had this in my order...

This on my 2011, might be some variation for the later years I'm assuming.