I've been reading up on how GL-5 rated gear oil has a higher sulfur content and can corrode the synchros even though the manual says you can use GL-4 or GL-5. A lot of people with shifting issues have said that Redline MT-90 or Royal Purple are good GL-4 oils that are made for helping your synchros grip.
Something else you can try is OVERFILLING your transmission. But only slightly, like a 1/4 quart (1cup). I read about it here:
CURE NOTCHY SHIFTING! 3rd gen and taco - Page 2 - YotaTech Forums
My R150F transmission had pretty grindy shifting but I tried this just for shits and giggles and, to my amazement, overfilling it .25 quarts actually made a big difference! It still grinds, but noticeably less.
I recently got some of that Redline MT-90 gear oil that I'll be putting in soon. I'll let you guys know what happens.