So after the last week and a half of trouble shooting absolutely EVERYTHING in the Toyota manual...checking all wires, ohms, connections, components, etc. I finally came to the last step on the trouble shooting pages, "replace ecu". I had a spare one kicking around in the garage so I tossed it in and VROOOOMMMM!!!! The biotch fired right up!! Dammit I could have saved so much time, and aggrevation, argh!!! Well at least its fixed and the beast is up and running again. Thanks everyone for your input.