I'm with you, I dont like the minor body modifications they did. I also dont like the Grille, but to each his own. I realize a lot of people like the 05+'s better.
I'd go with the limited, if the owner has taken good care of it. I love having AWD. I'm completely bias though, considering I have the same car.
EDIT: Plus, it has 10k fewer miles, which is pretty significant.
Oh wow, a internet bigot! /golfclap.
Spoiled - having the character or disposition harmed by pampering or oversolicitous attention; "a spoiled child"
So, for example, I can have the richest parents in the world. That dosent mean I am "spoiled". It's the disposition, not the materialistic...
Good luck with the sell. It's very fairly priced. :)
Also as a v8 owner I can easily say that the engine has no faults what so ever, and it's nice to hear the sound of it.