Running what was in that last picture of mine:
Stock TRD shocks, Toytec 1/2” top spacer, Bilstein 14” 600 lbs springs in front, Toytec 2” springs in rear. No additional weight in back, and front is heavier by 89 lbs (Warn bumper, no winch).
285/70/17 C-load Ridge Grapplers