Stop and tail lights on
Seen this before. Somewhere a bulb is shorted. One filament touching another. Usually a 1057/3057 tail light. Replaced both tail lights or if applicable front turn/parking light bulbs. Problem solved.
Good luck. Doesn't happen with LED lights.
Remote start
12volt.solutions.com plug 'n play. 10 minute install. Phone module is $199 and $29 yr. They have models for key and keyless models. Good people to work with.