I don't drive hard which I'm thinking is first off the at the stop light. Here that will get you t-boned by red light runners. On the interstate I'll roll with the flow.
Here's a picture of our 2006 for comparison. Front end. We are original owners. It has spent its life since new at the Outer Banks of NC. It has seen time on the beach and driven though maybe 6" of sound-side brackish water whenever the 40-50+ mph winds blow water over the road getting in & out...
When we bought our 06 4 Runner new the salesman told me it would go 300,000 miles if maintained properly. I thought it was salesman BS. We are about to turn 121,000.