I'm in the same boat as you for my 94 runner. Still shopping around though. I think the buckets are these.
TOYOTA 4RUNNER HILUX LN50 LN60 LN80 LN100 LN106 111 HEADLIGHT BUCKET PAIR 88- 98 | eBay
And for grille/trim pieces I found these.
For 1989-1991 PICKUP 4WD HEADLIGHT DOOR PARK/CLEARANCE...
