Ahh... fabtech... just down the street from me
GOod to see that they're in the mix of things. As for what you'll need to do:
XREAS will have to go unfortunately.
Sorry to say but all the $$ you spent on getting one pretty much made it go out the door. You really can't replace the system as it's a cross integrated system between the front and rear (diag). You lose 100% of the xreas system in exchange for the regular shock and coil setup that everyone has (sr5 and non xreas limited 4runners). The diff is that you'll have more lateral roll movement since the xreas was developed for that reason alone (one of many). There body roll will be more evident at stop and go along w/ turns. Yes we all have swaybars but that only goes so far w/ the weight of the truck. Bottom line, it's 3" of lift.
I sincerely hope that you do have 4wd as if this is not the case they might develop a kit that will not fit w/ the 4wd. PM if this concerns ya.
The only warranty that will go out the window would be the suspension along w/ the xreas system. I highly doubt they'll void the tranny and other drivetrain items as that's rare but there are some pita dealers that might try. I took my lifted 4runner into Longo and they didn't even care. They were more interested in the lift than anything else
Just hit up some nice dealers and you won't have any problems. My warranty is still 100% so I know I'm in good hands.
If you really want to retain your xreas system, the only option available is getting a spacer lift using Daystar or Revtek. I know it kinda sux but at the current stage, that's the only option available. But if you are willing to remove the xreas then go ahead and get the free coilovers. I figure you should be able to get it for free since you are becoming their guinnea pig... good luck!
Also on a similar note, if you plan to eventually sell your 4runner, you'll definitely want to retain that xreas for a higher resale value.
Good luck and if you have any other q's regarding being a test subject, let me know as I'm in the process w/ other vendors on developing items for the 4th gen too!