Two schools of thought when buying your kid a car. Couple years ago, a local family in my town had their daughter, a high school senior, driving an old VW Beetle, with worn out tires. This girl was everything you would want in a daughter, smart, and industrious. Cheerleader, popular. Even though parents did well, she had a part time job. That old Beetle lost traction on ice one morning, and she hit a Tacoma head on. The no antilock brakes, no traction control, no air bags Beetle burst into flames when the front gas tank exploded. She had been knocked unconscious by the steel dashboard. It was a sad story.
When my kids got scholarships for college I decided to buy them a car to share, to replace the decrepit Saab I had let them use (it did have ABS and air bags, though). Went with an Accord. Air bags, ABS, traction control, modern safety features. And I made sure it had good rubber. Considered a Civic and an Impreza. They Seemed small, Accord had more mass. Sure as heck, one son hit ice in the interstate on the way home his first Christmas break, hit jersey barrier first in the front, then in the back, at freeway speeds. He walked away, unhurt. It is amazing to me that they even sell the RAV4, and that people buy it, since it failed the crash test.
My sons wife still drives that Accord, it has 200,000 miles on it now.