She was a crazy one to say the least!! Move on is exactly right....I have a great fiancee now she has helped me through alot. This 4Runner has been difficult at times, but all in all I like it better than my 02. More because I have built it, instead of paying someone to do it. I have never really worked on vehicles before so its a slow process...plus I bought this 4Runner. Out of cleveland Ohio. It had not been molested but had been abused. RUST everywhere.....I have cleaned & sanded just about everything so far....everytime I change something on it I spend more time cleaning than wrenching...but I have learned alot over the last 11 months, I have to say that t4r.org has helped me out greatly...they truely are some great writ-ups/build threads here. One day I hope my rig is as nice as some of these other rigs on t4r. Thanks for checking out my build.