Wouldn't buy Kia myself but I have heard they've made great strides. I think you'll be disappointed in the longevity with Kia or Hyundai, they simply aren't made to go and go. I'd get a Hyundai over a Kia. If it's a looks thing and she's set on it based on that, you're in for an uphill battle.
Edit: 4Runner or bust in my opinion.