the rest of the lift was finally delivered and a few buddies and i slapped everything on the other day.
front: Bilstein 5100 (set at 2.5" on stock springs for now)
rear: Bilstein 5125 on OME 890s
wheels: 18x9 +0 Enkei Borgner ZX
tires: 285/65/18 (32.5") BFG T/A KO