Problem Solved
So took it to a friend of mines shop who is building my rx7 race car and he has access to the ALLDATA service information and according to the diagrams the ADD relay is on the passenger side, to the right of the glovebox and roughly inline with the glovebox lever to open it...
So I phoned the local Toyota dealership to find out where this relay is located and they had no clue what I was talking about :(
Anyways, can somebody please tell me where the hell this relay is located? Pictures would be nice as well :)
Much appreciated,
Charles