Nevermind. Found the plug. It was taped to the back of the large wiring harness bundle, since I guess it has never been used. I thought it would have been more exposed. All set! :)
I bought a used 2004 4Runner Limited/4WD with what I thought had the Towing package. It has the hitch and wired in with the 7pin harness. I went to install a brake controller today, and under the dash I was assuming there would be a plug to just plug it right in- as the owner's manual says- but...
I just traded in our old reliable 2001 Tacoma and picked up a 2004 4Runner Limited V8 4WD.
I can tell this forum will be great. Already found the service manuals and owners manuals!
thanks,
Jason
Austin, TX