Thanks. Also found
http://www.toyota-4runner.org/3rd-gen-t4rs/202471-starting-issue-contacts-more-already-done.html?highlight=starter thread
and both of your responses should get the job done.
I don't want to beat a dead horse but the starter threads are not helping me OR maybe I'm too dumb to see the answer. I have checked my battery and receiving 740 CA and I replaced the relay. I can hear the relay as I try to start. After the third click (turn of the key) car starts right up...
