unfortunately you will find rude people in every forum. Mostly because they are know-it-alls and believe they are above everyone else...I haven't come across that yet in this forum, and I hope I don't!
I had a hard time choosing between nautical blue and mineral gray metallic (mgm). I was originally looking at a used silver 2019, but discovered it had been wrecked. I ended up going with the mgm, and will be adding the matte black emblem overlays very soon!
Nice to meet you..from reading this post, that appeared to be what most were doing...so now I have posted in the New Members area and updated my garage...
Just bought my 1st 4Runner. I had a Corolla GT-S many years ago, and it was a very nice ride! Now I have a 2019 T4R Off-Road Premium. Mineral Gray Metallic. Love it! I traded my 2016 Ram 1500 Ecodiesel with 80k miles before it had a catastrophic failure!