This time around, i think that Honda learned its mistake from 1st gen...the truck needs to have a traditional look to get more buyers. The 1st get was too extreme...almost Aztec like that alienated many.
Although unibody by nature, remember, that many unibodies nowadays have frame rail-like reinforcements to further strengthen the unibody. Land Rover does this. Honda does this too.
You don't think Honda's AWD system is any good? My Acura MDX SH-AWD would argue with you!

This AWD system in the new Ridgeline is not SH-AWD, but at least has torque vectoring which makes it better than most Toyota system to date. I believe that this AWD activates with any acceleration, cornering, and of course slippage. That is plenty good for me (and my needs). But, yeah, i wish that they had put in SH-AWD in there because SH-AWD is full-time AWD. But oh well, this Ridgeline system probably saves a few more pennies in gas. And b/w a part-time 4wd system vs. AWD with TQ Vectoring, i will pick AWD all day long for my on-road/foul weather needs.
For the rest of your post, i think that you are clueless...with all due respect! Answer me these questions:
1. Do you currently own a minivan?
2. Do you have kids?
Let me answer the questions on my end. I still own a 2008 Sienna...so, obviously, i am not cool since i own one!

I will probably buy another Sienna when this one dies. (I also own a MDX for daily driving...Sienna is my "weekend" car.) I have 3 kids...all under 10.
How do you carry firewood, dry wall, etc. in a minivan if your kids are in it? Even if kids are at home, it is a PIA to take out the car seats AND the 2nd row captain chairs (I have Limited). And then after carrying the lumber, etc. you have to clean the WHOLE MINIVAN to keep the kids from having allergy attack from the dust!
Or how about carrying home a large plant or small tree? How do you fit that into a minivan? Again, see above argument regarding room and dust/dirt. HAVE YOU EVER TRIED IT in real life? I doubt it. I have. Trust me when i say this...you have no clue dude!
Cheap Tacoma 4-banger? Ok, so, instead of this Ridgeline, you want me to buy a gutless wonder on the highway who sucks more gas than the Ridgeline on a bad day?!!! And i wonder why 4-banger trucks don't sell well! Oh yeah, because they get the same damn mileage as their 6-cylinder brother! Why didn't i think of that?!
For me, this Ridgeline is going to replace my MDX, not my Sienna.