I have done my head gaskets and just 2 weeks ago I had to remove my d/s manifold to replace the gasket as it didn't seal well for me. When I did my head gaskets as well as when I replaced the manifold gasket I did NOT remove the crossover pipe. I'm pretty sure it takes an act of war to do so. I don't see how it could be done without jacking the motor up. When I did my head gaskets all of the studs came out of the head when I tried to take the nuts off.
I hoped that would happen this past time but it did not. All of the studs stayed in. I tried everything to remove the manifold without taking all the studs out but it was not possible. I would just remove the nuts, see what happens and if that gets you no where I'd go ahead and remove the studs and pull it on out. With patience and PB Blaster my crossover to manifold nuts came off. Just don't rush it and over head the threads.
I realize you're past this now but I figured I'd put up my experience for future searchers such as myself.
As far as the 8mm bolts I'm pretty sure he mentions them in this video. I really enjoyed these videos during my head gasket journey.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yTsocmNdBpQ