Back from the dead...
Once again - much thanks for all the cool feedback and comments. Last 2 months I've been working with the guys at Car Toys to bring my 4Runner back from the dead. They handled all the interior work and also building the updated light bar bracket. Stripped out all carpet, seat covers, bleached and scrubbed the frame, then started from there.
Went with dark charcoal carpet (stock is really light stone for some reason), grey leather seat covers, added seat warmers for front and rear (back and bottom), and put back in an old Kenwood head unit that I had previously thought was toast but is working great now. Replaced the JL steathbox and upgraded to a newer amp. Luckily the idiots weren't aware of the Focal mids and highs in my doors so they were still there.
I've always wanted to add functional rear storage and not have to carry a big ass crate in the back, so since my local Car Toys had a really solid carpenter on staff I shared my idea and he was more than confident he could build it. I couldn't be happier with the outcome, they did great work all the way around.
While the crew at Car Toys was doing their thing I finally was able to get in touch with a local fabricator (Corey Sain @ Insain Fabrication) and get him going on a rear bumper replacement with combo tire and fuel carrier. He took a couple weeks to fabricate then had my vehicle for a few days to install. It worked out well that he was completed around the time Car Toys finished up so it felt like I was getting an entirely new runner all at once. Guy does really solid work and offers a 4th gen style that no one makes and sells online or by order.
After seeing all the black steel around the 4Runner I knew I had to do something about those alloy wheels, so in lieu of spending $1000+ on new ones that will just get beat up in the mountains I got a local paint shop to powder coat them at $60 per. Went with "kingsport grey" since I've always liked a little contrast between tire and wheel and didn't want them just to get lost in all the black.
New pics:
https://photos.app.goo.gl/ArrgnwUJKh00ykJH3
Hope ya'll approve! It's been quite the range of emotions and a lot of time spent dealing with the associated BS over the last 5-6 months but all in all I couldn't be happier. Can't wait to hit the trails in a few months and hopefully kick it with some of you fine folks!