My '12 SR5 is like that too. It's normal.
Don't worry about pissing off people. At least you made some effort. Sometimes we just don't use the right search terms, or we simply overlook a post. It's not a big deal. It's almost like you're damned if you do, damned if you don't. Don't search, and someone yells for not searching. Search, and then someone yells for reviving an old thread. If you can't find something after a little bit of searching, I say, just ask. No point in spending your whole night looking if someone can provide you with an answer off the top of their head in a few minutes.