Alright guys I swapped the coil pack for cylinder 3 and that seems to have fixed everything!!!
Woohoo!
Thank goodness! Big thanks to everyone who chimed in. As soon as I get home I'm ordering 3 OEM coils and an OEM injector (just for a backup) haha!
CEL - “check engine light...” you won’t see any codes with an obd2 scanner unless this is on.
Finally got codes, still limping carefully. 450 miles to home
p0300 p0303
Pending codes can be in the ecm (and read with an appropriate scanner) without check engine light being on.
P0300- ENGINE MISFIRE DETECTED
P0303- CYLINDER #3 MISFIRE DETECTED
Cylinder #3 is the middle one on the passenger side of the engine. My bet would be a bad ignition coil. Higher engine rpm's generally have a stronger spark than lower engine rpm's.
EDIT: Late to the party. I didn't see there was a 2nd page for this thread lol I'm glad you got it figured out!