Hey there everyone. I been a long time fan of the 4Runner and been lurking this forum for awhile now. The time is getting closer for us to pull the trigger on a new family vehicle. We are a Family of 5, 2 6 year olds and a 10 year old. We do a couple camping trips a year and would love to pull a small trailer as an upgrade from tenting.
We have been rocking a grand caravan now for almost 6 years so we do worry we are going to lose some of that inside space and end up being too cramped in there when we are loading up for day trips. But one thing I truly miss is going off the beaten path and finding some trails to go on. I used to own a Jeep and a lifted truck and we now down to just the van. Living in BC Canada, there is plenty of areas to go and explore
Has anyone else made this switch? Was it worth it?
We own a Honda Odyssey and a 3rd row 4Runner. I drove the Highlander but ignored it because (1) we already have a van and (2) the car is my daily driver and I'm 40, but not ready to feel dead yet.
The 4R is great for trips, and can be loaded down fairly well. We don't tow with it, but we've put boxes on top and on the hitch (and there are pictures somewhere on the forum) and it drives great, even with 6 or 7 in seat belts (we currently have 7 in our house, and that's a big push). We've done 6 in the vehicle over two days each way on trips and all survived. You can find a way to make that work.
Where the 4R stinks is daily driving with more than 4. It's ok for me taking 3 kids to school, but access to the 3rd row is tight, and the 3rd row itself is small. Our oldest is 12 and he's near being squeezed out in the back (but he can get back there with less fuss than the 3yo, so...). My wife has no trouble driving it, although she's not been out of commission like your spouse.
A highlander is a far better DD than the 4R, but a van even more so. (We're actually looking to upgrade to a Sprinter if we can find a good price, so that's our level of crazy).
Good luck.
*Oh, and the Sequoia and Suburban. The Suburban is out of our price range, and is little more than a mini van. It's good for what it is and a little bigger inside. I've not driven the Sequoia, but it is said to be outdated and (like most Toyota trucks) due for an update. But it's bigger than the 4R and will tow something.