LimeLED
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What?Don't use the word "mini van". so 1980's....
That is literally what they are called. Go look at Toyota, Honda, Chrysler, Kia, etc. websites... Literally every one calls them Minivans. :crazy:
What?Don't use the word "mini van". so 1980's....
Don't use the word "mini van". so 1980's....
What, if I repeat it three times will I be cursed with Beetlejuice?
(Beetlejuice is actually a good name for a minivan...)
Nothing wrong with it, it's one of the best designs of modern cars... but most people have serious image issues and can't stand driving them. Not that there aren't sometimes better options out there.
For instance, I wouldn't mind converting my wife's Odyssey into something like the beast that Bisi built:
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But I've also professed my admiration of the Sprinter, although my wife wants a different build than I want. She wants something like the unshaved and probably unshowered crunchies drive:
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Love my 4Runner, so I'm partial to recommending it. Prior to it I had our twins in rear-facing car seats in a Jetta Sportwagen, so I'm also fine with squeezing a bit in order to drive a vehicle I like. However, even from that perspective the 4R may be a big compromise for daily use for 5 people. The third row is small, once the kids get older it will be an uncomfortable place for the unlucky kid to travel in for long distances. Ditto if all three squeeze into the second row. Not as worried about cargo space, that can be mitigated with a roof box and putting some items in the trailer you're towing, but passenger space is going to run against some hard limits. Others are correct, I'd rent one from the Toyota dealership and take it on a trip to see how it does for your family.
A big question for me is, how badly do you need the offroad capabilities of the 4R? It's capable enough to make my kids and spouse uncomfortable in stock form, so is that level of ability really what you want, or can you dial it back a touch and go with something like a lightly used base Nissan Armada? It'll have more room, more posh, more power, more towing, but it's still a BOF 4x4 with low range and a proven (I think) engine and transmission. It isn't a bigger Pathfinder, it's a truck-based SUV that hearkens back to Nissan's days as a real automaker rather than a purveyor of disposable CVTs and crossovers. The Armada also seems to depreciate quite a bit more than Sequoias and Suburbans, so you might find a low mileage one for the price of a 4R.
I'd stick with the van before I went with a lower-slug Highlander/Flex or any other crossover (I don't see this providing much advantage over what you already have). I would not go lift a CVT Subaru or take a risk on the new Ascent given Subaru's recent quality control issues. Consider the Armada, and update us with your decision!
Have you given the Highlander or possibly even an older Land Cruiser a shot? (Seems the Sequoia is out of the question.) Both are a bit bigger then the 4runner, capable, luxurious, and carry the Toyota reliability/ resale value that I'd suspect you're looking for.
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I'm close to the same position. I had a 2012 Audi A3 which I was using for commuting and fun. We have a 2/4/7 year old currently, and went with a Sienna when the third came along. Previously my wife was driving a Venza.
I recently went with an ORP to replace the A3, which I just sold yesterday (many tears). I spent a bunch of time today trying to figure out how to get all 3 kids in the 2nd row, and finally gave up. Given that they're all in boosters or a convertible, there's just not enough room to get 3 across, at least with 5-point boosters. Even tried getting 2 seats and a Graco booster-only (no high-back) in there, and it just doesn't fit. There may be other configurations that do, but we're using Peg Perego convertibles and Britax Frontier 5-point boosters - they're just too wide. So, until the oldest can get by without a booster, I can't take everyone. :-(
So, all family trips will be in the Sienna for the time being - or we're taking 2 cars, which sucks.
I'm close to the same position. I had a 2012 Audi A3 which I was using for commuting and fun. We have a 2/4/7 year old currently, and went with a Sienna when the third came along. Previously my wife was driving a Venza.
I recently went with an ORP to replace the A3, which I just sold yesterday (many tears). I spent a bunch of time today trying to figure out how to get all 3 kids in the 2nd row, and finally gave up. Given that they're all in boosters or a convertible, there's just not enough room to get 3 across, at least with 5-point boosters. Even tried getting 2 seats and a Graco booster-only (no high-back) in there, and it just doesn't fit. There may be other configurations that do, but we're using Peg Perego convertibles and Britax Frontier 5-point boosters - they're just too wide. So, until the oldest can get by without a booster, I can't take everyone. :-(
So, all family trips will be in the Sienna for the time being - or we're taking 2 cars, which sucks.
I understand the issue and cost involved in switching car seats. We only have 2 kids and there is no way we could get 3 of the Graco convertibles that we have in the 4runner, but the Diono Radians fit pretty easy. We can actually fit the Graco in with the 2 radians when my niece is visiting. Just an option to look at. We keep the 2 Graco’s in my wife’s Outback and the Radians in the 4runner so when we need a 3rd we just take one out of hers and it fits easily. Also with the Radians there is plenty of room for our dog in her backseat hammock or a grandparent to ride next to the car seats. When we travel with 6 or 7 it does take some yoga moves to get people in the 3rd Row but it is manageable for short trips...ie 3 hours or under like when we travel up to Disney World.
Sorry for the sideways pic but my 4runner also doubles as a rocket.
Add a 3rd row, see the mod threads here...
Thanks, definitely going to check into these...may be a lifesaver if we can get all 3 in the 2nd row!
I used to have an Odyssey when my kids were smaller, and it was great. Having owned both, I think you will be happier in the mini-van with small kids. There's more tech and features you will use every day. Sure, the T4R would be great on camping trips, but minivan makes more sense the rest of the time.