I've never owned a Toyota until this one. But I've done engine swaps on my buddy's Tacoma, and I've done everything from coil spacer lifts to complete axle and spring swaps with both coils and leafs on Jeeps and pickup trucks, so I do have a lot of experience with this. Also, my father is a 35+ year career master mechanic. The two of us spent HOURS on the small lift we put on this 4Runner. It was a total PITA. I do not agree at all with those who say this is a 30 minute job in the driveway. Hell, it usually takes a couple hours just to get all the rusty, frozen nuts and bolts off one of these jap trucks when you get started. Doing a lift on one of these is a long process and takes some time. So in my opinion, the price he was quoted for parts, labor, and alignment total is really not a bad price. It's a lot of money, but for what he's getting the price is fair.
OP...hope you are very happy with the results. I am real happy with how mine turned out...just wish I'd have left the 5100s on the 2.5 setting.