Have you had luck with rod end boots? It's one of those things that seems like a good idea, but in practice they usually do a better job at keeping crap in once it gets there, than they do of keeping crap out.
I have a pack of the rubber boots in a box in the garage. They'll go on the next time I swap them. They're due right now - but I haven't had time to do it. The biggest functional issue is that they start making a lot of noise when they end up with metal on metal contact as the plastic liner wears through. Otherwise you could probably run them forever and they'd just rattle once they're worn out. I seem to always have to cut them out too. I think this time I'm back again to having to cut them out even with a lot of anti-seize on the hardware. The misalignments seize to the through bolt. Short of taking it apart every few months, I'm not sure how to prevent it. - for the OP - be sure to put antiseize on the misalignments. And don't use copper - use aluminum based antiseize. Copper antiseize seems to react with the coating on the OEM bolts and makes them worse, not better. I'm not an expert on the chemistry going on, but I've had very bad luck anywhere I've used a copper based antiseize on the hardware on this vehicle. So aluminum antiseize or similar is probably your best bet to be able to get them off some day without having to cut the bolt out.
For me it's only the lowers in the front that really get worn out fast. The rear bushings on the fox performance are rubber bushings not spherical bearings. And the uppers don't seem to really wear out. Mine are still original uppers. They have little felt protective pads on them on the upper setup and that combined with the natural protection from the elements probably explains why they last so much longer.
I think if the boot works - it would solve the problem for me. The fact that the uppers don't wear out means that it's probably an issue with dirt getting into the bushings and causing the wear, not an issue with the bushings wearing out from the suspension cycling. I was thinking about maybe just leaving the boots on next time but not packing them with grease and even cutting out the bottom so they drain easily. And then also using a zip -tie on the top to try to get a really good seal around the top.
My other thought was just to machine out the lower eye and use a rubber bushing like the OEM setup. I'd just have to find the right bushing to use. The OEM lower eye is a lot bigger than the Fox one, so I'm not sure if there's enough material in the fox lower leg to machine out that big of a hole and still have enough strength left. But I'm pretty sure I could find a rubber bushing to work there.
Finally - I wouldn't say that I'm unhappy with the front Fox 2.5's. They're great. Some of the places I like to go are 50-100 miles on very rough washboard with periodic spots where water has washed through. The last time I was out to one of the spots this fall it was bad enough a Jeep Cherokee was high centered in the soft silt. Think baja 1000, but maybe only 50% as difficult. Anyway - being able to go 50-70mph is a huge time saver out there. If you're going 100 miles out - the difference between 10mph and 50mph is huge. And the fox suspension really makes that possible. So I love it.
I'm not thrilled with the Fox performance series rear shocks. They were too firmly valved for me most of the time because I don't haul a lot of weight and they're a non-standard refill valve, so I can't re-valve them myself or even swap in a lighter oil weight. And they didn't last very long. I'd buy Fox 2.5's again without blinking. I probably wouldn't go with the same 2.0 rear shocks again.
I think the OP will be really happy with the King shocks. They're very similar to the Fox. Without seeing them, I don't think you'd ever be able to tell the difference from the driver's seat.