Scenario: Your girlfriend stays the night with a guy on his couch...

How would you react?

  • I'd stay with her, it's probably nothing.

    Votes: 5 4.5%
  • Kissing or not, that's too close for comfort, she's out.

    Votes: 21 19.1%
  • That's cheating. Plain and simple.

    Votes: 14 12.7%
  • I'd be pissed but ultimately stay with her and work it out.

    Votes: 12 10.9%
  • I'd have trouble trusting her, and doubtfully attempt to make it work.

    Votes: 24 21.8%
  • I would flip a shit!

    Votes: 16 14.5%
  • Am I not enough?

    Votes: 3 2.7%
  • Options 2, 3 and 6 combined.

    Votes: 25 22.7%
  • Options 1, 4 and 5 combined.

    Votes: 8 7.3%
  • Other (specify)

    Votes: 6 5.5%

  • Total voters
    110
If you don't trust her now, your not going to trust her later. I'd say call it quits and move on.

Good luck!

-Shawn
 
I think my favorite line in this entire thread is:

"Dump her. I'm an F-18 pilot."........as if this is enough of a qualifier to believe in the wisdom that follows.

No offense meant to anyone here, ...but I don't think "Dump her. I'm a plumber...and I've plugged more holes than......" lends itself to contain more infinite wisdom than the above post.

Best part about "fighter-pilots" (I have 2 cousins who are) is watching them crash and burn when they try to use that with the "opposition."
:bigok:
 
I think my favorite line in this entire thread is:

"Dump her. I'm an F-18 pilot."........as if this is enough of a qualifier to believe in the wisdom that follows.

No offense meant to anyone here, ...but I don't think "Dump her. I'm a plumber...and I've plugged more holes than......" lends itself to contain more infinite wisdom than the above post.

Best part about "fighter-pilots" (I have 2 cousins who are) is watching them crash and burn when they try to use that with the "opposition."
:bigok:

Aww, how cute. You expected me to pretend to be humble and kind in accordance with the social norms you think matter. Sorry. The truth is that I'm a man of considerable egotism, for good reason, but that's somewhat beside the point. My point was that from this perspective, I now realize that I should have quit trying sooner in just about every relationship I ever had, prior to my wife. If you would prefer that I pretend to be humble, or lie about the reality of my life just to make people comfortable, you've got the wrong guy. It would be rude and manipulative to feign humility where none exists. There are much bigger things to be humbled by.
 
speaking from the girl side of the house........if she was into you and gettin close to other guys..........not so pretty cool.

from the day i met my husband, i broke off all semi relationships and "close" friendships with all male contacts whom i didnt have long standing friendships with already.

i'm with him all the way, 100%.



i can see there being circumstances....drunk etc. . . .cuz i wouldnt let anyone drive drunk...but she could have slept on another couch, in another room, etc. . .

sorry dude. it sucks.


and yes......i understand the pilot guy...........i'm a crewchief on helos. yall are an interesting bunch of folks.
 
Your farts still stink, even at mach 1.8. LINY, it sounds like you got rid of her - probably a wise choice. If nothing happened, she wouldn't tell you a year later that "nothing happened".
 
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open relationships
if both parties are not the jealous type works real well lot more fun
just as hard as any relationship but so is any relationship
 

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