I'd like to revive this thread if possible. T4R.org has been invaluable for a number of projects & fixes and now I have one that has me stumped. I have the same problem here but it's not lug nuts and it's not the brake drum (replaced it last week). Here's the whole story:
I had a leaking drivers side rear axle oil seal on my '96 SR5. I couldn't figure out how to back the shoes off the drum based on the Haynes description so I was actually tightening the auto-adjust screw. I ended up using the screw holes in the drum to force the drum off and I'm thinking this is the root cause of my problems since the drum was pulling hard on shoes that were nice & tight against the drum. But, I can't find the actual source of the shaking. The rest of the axle seal job went fine & the leak has been fixed. But the shaking started the next day. I replaced the drum because I thought I may have bent it a little, and the problem went away for 4 days. Then on the highway yesterday & today starting around 55mph, the shaking came back. I pulled the e-brake a little & I could feel shaking in the handle. Then magically after a few minutes, the shaking went away & the rest of my drive was fine. I put an infrared thermo on both drums. The drivers side was about 150F, the passenger was about 100F so obviously the brakes are rubbing, but replacing the shoes & the drum didn't fix it. Could I have bent the backing plate so that everything is just a little out of whack? I know this will most likely be guesses since this is a very odd problem, but any input would be appreciated! My next step may be finding a parted out 4Runner & buying the whole backing plate/axle assembly.