op is probably going to want to go with that new "camry add-in" lift, developed by red green over at appalachian aluminum.
Really easy to do, just get hold of some camry struts (i used ones from a 98, the black,black springs) and remove the shock, plates, and other hardware.
Use zip ties, or radiator hose clamps and duct tape if you want to really beef it up, and secure the camry springs to the top of your current 4runner springs. This kit installs just like a standard lift, but be careful when lowering the truck off jack stands as some minor settling should be expected.
You'll get that beefy 2" lift and the ride will be so much more sedan-like on the road. Some guys have even used avalon springs, but don't be silly, you're after form and function.
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