Bought my 03 4R Sport w/v6 from a private owner 2 weeks ago. 98kmiles. The 4R has been on the bucket list for a long time. I tested 4Hi but failed to understand the 4lo operation. I'm having the usual problem from the 100-150 posts I've read. 4Hi works fine with or without diff lock. Put it in neutral, switch to 4lo, blinking 4 lo light. Light never goes out. Try backing up or moving forward 5-10' and no joy. The warning ding comes on. Tried multilpe switching from 4hi to 4lo. Tried very slowly switching to 4 lo. I'll try the accutator tap when it stops raining around these parts. Additional: I changed out the rear, TC, and front diff fluids. What am I missing.