I'm having the exact same issue on my 96 4x4. I have been losing about half the overflow bottle of coolant every month so I'm guessing bad head gasket or cylinder head. I have checked the coil packs, spark plugs, wires, resistance on fuel injectors and they are all fine. I am also not seeing any signs of coolant in that cylinder. I'm going to borrow a buddies compression tester this weekend and check the cylinders. If it's fine I am going to swap injectors and hope that's it. If not I guess I will be tearing down the motor. Mine has 214,000 miles on it so I'm not too mad about it. If anyone has any other suggestions I am all ears.