I'm not going to comment on the fluid, sorry.
But I'll relate one thing that I have done to quiet mine. There is a thin stiff black ground wire going from the engine head to the firewall (on the 3rz anyhow). It is black and has a connector so it can be separated. I think I have seen it in 5VZ photos as well.
When it is reasonably cold, a lot of engine noise is transmitted to the firewall which acts as a drum. I spent a lot of time upside down under the dash before this one became apparent. And I mean cold, you California guys need not worry.
I tried replacing it with a softer more flexible wire but that didn't help much. Then I extended, upsized and relocated the ground to the fender side to an unused nut. And then, quiet.
I should stress, this noise was not audible from the engine bay except with a stethescope.
Hope this helps someone.