Do unto others . . .

theBEAR

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Do unto others what you would have them do unto you.

I was on my back from college during the Christmas break 2009 (i think) and there was a massive double whammy snow storm that shut down the length of I-81 (Virginia). Long story short, my crappy Toyota Corolla with balding all season tires was no match for the thick snow. After running off the road and digging out for probably close to 2 hours we could still not get traction. No one but a late model Honda Civic stopped to help us. Yeah, a FWD Honda civic stopped to offer a helping hand. I didn't think there was anything they could do for us but MIRACULOUSLY they had a tow line in their car (did I mention miraculous???). We hooked it up and they tugged us right out. We were awestruck!!

I say all that to say that I will never forget that moment in my life. I was with my brother, two sisters, and a college buddy and we would have had no other choice but to stay with the car or walk for untold miles to all of the hotels that were already jam packed with people less stubborn than I was in my early twenties.

I take every opportunity to help others and I was able to help quite a few people over these last few days. I really enjoy doing it, but I also hope that my actions can help them in the same way that that couple in the little Honda Civic helped my family so many years ago.

I also learned something else this morning: If you plan to be a helping hand to those in need than you might want to add some versatility to your recovery bag (RB). My gigantic D Ring Shackles were not compatible with the front recovery points of the Honda Civic I was helping this morning. Neither was my 20K tow strap... Thankfully I found an old 1 1/2" tow strap in my RB that I had found on the side of the road last year. I threw it in my RB not knowing I would ever need it but it was perfect for this application. Looped the strap through both front recovery points on the Civic, strapped it to the 4Runner, and it was no problem from there.

A SMALL synthetic shackle MIGHT have fit as well.

Mission Accomplished.
 
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Well said.
What goes around comes around. You reap what you sow. In the end it all means the same, you cannot expect to receive help if you yourself have been unwilling to help others in the past. I've found my self on both ends of the snatch strap many times. Fortunately as I've gotten older and more experienced I find myself giving the pull more than getting. And as an aside, don't be one of those jerks that pull people out for money. All the poeple I've helped this past weekend have just been pay back for all the help I've received in the past. You get what you give.
 
Not only just being getting you or someone else unstuck in the snow. I've been the one in a parking lot with jumper cables in hand asking people if they minded jumping me off. Amazing how many people refuse. But someone eventually does. For that reason, I stop and ask every person I see stranded in a parking lot. I don't give strangers rides, but if I can get someone back on the road, I always will.
 
I'm a firm believer in karma by whatever means you want to call it. Last semester I stopped to offer assistance to someone I saw on the side of the road who had just been in an accident and had clearly totaled his car (wheels going different directions, radiator smashed, etc.) and it turned out he was heading home from my school. Ironically also on I-81 in VA. I ended up driving him home to Richmond after the tow truck took his car before I headed home (added about two hours to the trip, but I didn't mind).

Unfortunately I got ran off the road by a pick up on I-95 the NEXT day. It was a hit and run and no one stopped. Totaled my runner by rolling it over the jersey barrier. So I clearly pissed off the road gods along the line, haha. Still try and help people out when I can, though. You never know when you'll be in the same situation wishing someone would help out.
 
I went out on Saturday to find some better gloves for my girlfriend, only finding that everything was shut down. It turned into a rescue kind of day, I helped anyone that needed it, I would hope that someone would do the same to me... Kind of a shame how many people would just drive by the people obviously in need.
 
I always offer help because when I was 17 and my first car had a dead battery next to Dennis after dinner old man in brand new Taurus refused to jump start it when I asked. Moral of this story: I will never ask for help no matter how bad the situation but I'll gladly help others.
 
Just happened to me the other day. I help people whenever I can, and needed some myself last weekend.

Got stuck in some mud and needed a jeep with a winch to extract me, then he thought he could make it through and I had to pull him out.
Sometimes it goes around and comes around faster than you think. lol

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