I have the 2011 SR5 with leather. I can tell you what my experience has been so far re: handling.
It definitely handles more like a truck but I've been mildly surprised at how well it corners, or how flat it feels on turns (e.g. taking a highway offramp). Steering is very light compared to other cars/trucks I've owned, but I actually kind of like it (maybe I'm lazy). But feels very good to me. The one thing that seems odd is that if I don't pay 100% attention, the truck will wander more so than anything else I've driven. Maybe it's due to the light steering?
As for nose dive, I noticed it right away when I got it. Now, after 2 months, 1600 miles, not so much.
Going 80, it feels very solid and smooth. I'm amazed at how quiet and smooth it drives at speed. The hood does not move or ripple which some others have mentioned. Even my wife who has a 2010 Volvo XC60 (which has a more powerful engine, more european style handling, and feels really solid), really likes my 4runner and wants to acquire it somehow.
Other impressions:
- Leather is nice - I'm usually a cloth guy (being cheap) but I'm glad I got the leather.
- 3rd row seat is small but useful - just put 2 kids in their booster seats back there and they both loved it.
- Gas mileage is worse than expected - I'm getting low 17s but I don't do a lot of highway driving. When I am on highway a lot, it's up around 18 or 19.
- V6 is decent and smooth, but sometimes wish it had a little more oomph, especially when from a stop. My 1999 V8 Grand Cherokee was a lot smoother and felt more powerful, even though I think it had 230 hp and 295 ft-lb torque. The torque really makes a difference, and overall the engine seemed smoother. My Tacoma had a serious "ticking" sound since I got it. This engine seems quieter.
- Lots of room in the engine bay compared to other cars. I may add a 2nd battery at some point for my ham radio.
- Doors are tinny but I seemed to have gotten used to them. My 2005 Tacoma was similar but if I recall, they didn't seem this thin. But the 4runner has a lot less noise from the outside vs. my Tacoma.
- Doors locking automatically are a pain. If you don't like this have the dealer disable before you pick it up. Dealer would not turn off seat belt chime however.
- Husky floor liners fit great.
- 4wd is good - worked great on the snow we've had in MA. But it would be nice to have some kind of AWD or full time 4wd.
- I had the dealer swap out the stock Dunlops with Michelin LTX MS/2 tires - I don't know how the OEM tires rode, but I love MS/2 tires. It was not that expensive either. However, other dealers I talked to would not do this.
- Hated the window controls being so high, but now I'm used to them.
- Ergonomics are good - but I'm also used to the Toyota layout (I've had 4 Toyotas so far).
- Rear windshield gets dirty fast as others have noted.
- Glad I got the 110v option, and nice that it has a 12v in the rear.
Probably more than you wanted, but as someone who went through this myself, I would have liked to have known these things before buying. I still would have bought (I was comparing to a 2011 Honda Pilot) but at least I would have been more confident going in.
Fair enough i know there will be some..
i like sr5 the best the limited a lil out of price range for me.
on a side note how is at highway speeds? like 80 or so is it smooth with good acceleration??